戰役

在汲汲營營的生活中，我們可能過習慣了重複忙碌的日子，而忘了停下來聽聽自己心底的那個聲音，曾經充滿熱情，夢想，一顆單純美麗的心靈。也許你覺得我不實在，在作一些超齡的夢。不過，如果失去了那麼一股對生命的熱忱，我們要如何過得得意，自在？

因為要往更好的地方去，我移居到了另外一個城市生活。但過了一段日子我還是覺得沒有以前的日子那麼自在，慢慢的開心不起來。好像其實並沒有更好，因為現在的好是用以前的好換來的。有點被騙的感覺，其實都沒兩樣。但是我忽略一個重點，人生是一個沒有回頭的過程，過去的好已經追不回來，現在的才最重要。是以前的努力造就了今天的藍天白雲！沒差。

偶爾我們會在追求理想的過程中迷失了自己，別怕，就乘機歇歇腳，從新把方向擺正，再邁開肯定的腳步往前進。無論你現在處在一個怎樣的狀態，只要誠實的面對自己的心，一切都不是難題。

賽德克。巴萊是一本充滿熱情，敘述一個被時代拋棄了沒落少數民的故事。一場場熱血沸騰的民族戰鬥，為了很簡單和理所當然的理由而戰，而殺。我們不需要去到那麼地步，但至少為自己打出漂亮的一役！

"人一旦豪不保留的將意志專注在某一件他想得到的事物上，他的靈魂就會接通身體賜預力量，這份意志無關情操的高尚與否，只在于渴望的強度。"　賽德克。巴萊

如不如意

给有时会想不开的我们：

生活总是难免挫折不如意，前人早以 '人生不如意之事十之八九' 提示我们了，所以生活中的不如意其实是比如意平常的。要是想不通就别去想了，换一个方向，做做别的。可能是女生比男生爱胡思乱想的关系吧。只是想那么多后到头来还是虚无空洞，不如踏实一点，以行动取胜？

转移了专注力吧。把心放在进步，改善和享受生活中的漂亮风景，而不是一直回头望过去。
虽然不是天天阳光灿烂，但日子还是要过，地球不会为任何人而停止转动，树木不会因为你的沮丧而停止长高。日子怎样还是要过的，过得开心当然比较划算哦。

试试把开心的事和想法写下来，拍下来，以自己的方式记录下来，然后放在显眼的地方提醒自己。做这件事也会让你很开心哦！

所以自重，自量，自爱，自在的确很重要也让我们更有深度。

方下吧师主。求平安，求健康，求仁爱，求快乐。

Habit

Have you ever observe how you operate? From the minor details such as what would you do after you get into the car? How long does it takes before you actually ignite the engine and drive off? Or what do you normally do after starting up your computer? Do you go straight to what you want to do or you be distracted by emails, facebook messages, pop up advertisements, Groupon sale and all sorts, then only get to what you really need to do, like paying the overdue bills?

If you spend some time observing yourselves or others, you will see a trend of how people operate dictate the outcomes and how well a person manage time. Because every little distractions are eating up your time, and sometimes distractions lead to a habit of procrastination. And procrastination leads to further stress about unfinished tasks, assignments and failure of delivery. Not a good thing.

Let's nurture some good habits so we could all manage our time and work better. With better time management we could achieve better results and allow more spare times for fun and relaxation. One of the best way to do that is plan your actions, write them down as reminder (thanks to the funky mobile apps) and finally actions your flawless plan. I am confident in that way you will save time and energy with more effective results in operating a happier life.

Fighter's Story

Everyone has a different growing up story. What differentiate one story to be more inspiring than others would be ironically rating from the hardship a person has been through and how he demonstrated to be a real fighter in life. I find this famous person's story particularly interesting, just because he had to fight for his dreams, passions, and also challenge the social norm to prove his rights to be talented and successful. 

He said, "beauty is about perception, not about makeup. I think the beginning of all beauty is knowing and liking oneself. You can't put on makeup, or dress yourself, or do your hair with any sort of fun or joy if you're doing it from a position of correction." This is Kevin Aucoin, a famous male makeup artist, photographer and author.  

Aucoin was interested in makeup since he was a child, in the 60's. Because of his differences from his peers, he was bullied at school, being called "sissy" and discriminated from the society. But he never stop chasing his dreams and passions. He took in the hardship, moved to a different city and work harder than the girls (during that time makeup artists are generally women), finally his talent was discovered by Vogue in New York.

So when you are wondering why you are not successful, you have some reflection work to do. There is no one to blame. Don't worry about not being perfect, no one will really notice. I still believe work hard with a bit of luck you will get there in no time!

Have a bright and big future!